What does it take to be a mentor?
Being a great M.E.N.T.O.R will help you just as much as your students, says Nirmala Hariharan
Mentoring is one of the most crucial roles played by faculty on a day
to day basis. As a mentor, you provide scientific and technical
guidance, and serve as the pillar of support for your team of students,
postdocs and trainees. Mentoring can consume a lot of your time, and be
very demanding, but has several long term benefits that will help you
run a successful lab. Here’s what a great M.E.N.T.O.R provides for their
students.
Motivation.
You’re the constant source of motivation for your team; you need to see
the big picture and guide your team through the ups and downs. You’re
the leader that inspires excellence and encourages scientific
innovation. As a good mentor, you must recognise the true potential of
your mentees – even if they don’t – and know how to bring out the best
in them. In short, you should make them realise what they’re capable of.
Emotional Support and Connection. As a mentor, you
need to provide emotional support to your mentees as they struggle to
find their place in science. Career decisions are strongly impacted by
the irregularities of life generally, so be willing to discuss and share
incidents from your life that helped you tackle problems in science,
and balance your personal life with your work.
Connecting with your mentees on an emotional and personal level helps
them recognise that you’re available when they need support and
encourages them to reach out when they need it. An emotional connection
helps in building a mutually beneficial, professional relationship of
respect and friendship, which will hopefully last for many years.
Networking. One of the most important roles of a
mentor is to help mentees build strong professional relationships by
introducing them to your own network. Conferences are fantastic avenues
to network, and giving credit to your mentee and directly introducing
them to your friends and colleagues has tremendous advantages for both
of you.
Teaching. A good mentor has to be a good teacher.
Your day to day tasks will include teaching experimental procedure,
scientific concepts and writing, and helping with data analysis and
general troubleshooting. Mentoring requires tremendous patience and –
importantly – also requires allowing your mentees to make mistakes and
learn from them themselves.
Opportunities for Career Growth. Providing
opportunities for your mentee’s career growth is extremely important, so
make sure to discuss goals often, and encourage mentees to think about
their progress.
There are many ways you can provide opportunities for career
development to your students – review their CV and professional
materials, encourage them to apply for awards that demonstrate their
excellence, discuss potential job opportunities and alternative career
choices, and teach them how to excel at self-promotion. The more your
mentees grow in their careers, the more satisfaction and recognition
you’ll get for being an awesome mentor.
Role model. Ultimately to be a good mentor you have
to be an excellent role model. Practice what you preach, demonstrate
integrity in your professional and personal interactions, and show by
example how to balance work and life. Be resilient, handle rejections,
efficiently manage time and make sure to be a caring mentor.
It’s never too early to learn how to mentor – start now if you
haven’t already. Mentoring is different from classroom teaching and
requires hours of personal interaction. Getting over your inhibitions or
issues with communication are important to excel as a mentor. Have
patience and keep developing as you mentor people with different
personalities. Remember it takes time to build trust with your mentee
and you’ll get better with time and practice. Get feedback, and take
suggestions and negative critiques seriously, so you can improve.
Being a mentor means being a ‘Guru’, a Sanskrit word that literally
means ‘one who dispels darkness’ – a person that shows the way to pure
knowledge. Mentoring is one of the most rewarding and exciting aspects
of being a faculty member. Enjoy the ride because the more you give, the
more you get back.
Nirmala Hariharan is an adjunct
assistant professor at UC Davis’ School of Medicine, where she mentors
in and researches molecular signalling pathways for basic cardiovascular
sciences.